Tips for Being a Competitive Golfer in High School and Beyond
Thank you for returning to Golf Course 101! A new way to learn about golf and life.

I’m sorry it has been so long since I’ve written. I’ve been caught up with work and graduate school etc. etc. And not to mention it’s been SO hot down here that I haven’t been playing as much golf as I’ve wanted.
So, I want to start addressing the idea of preparing for the life of a college golfer. What does it take to become a college golfer? How do you get there? What steps do you take? I have recently become aware through a good friend of mine and local head teaching professional of a growing number of high school (and younger) girl beginning golfers. As you can imagine, I have a lot in common with this group of individuals and I would like to offer some advice and some of my experiences.
I started playing golf the summer before my freshman year of high school. My Dad asked me if I wanted to go out to the driving range with him one day and I gladly obliged - I was always looking for opportunities to spend one-on-one time with either of my parents. I remember my first goals in golf were to hit it past the 100 yard marker. And then to actually hit the 100 yard market itself. Seems meaningless now - but that’s how I started. You set miniature goals for yourself throughout your golf career. Once you achieve those, you make another. Eventually if your goals become harder and you are always pushing yourself, you become a better golfer.
One thing I realized in college that I think everyone can apply to their game is to practice harder and longer than everyone else. If you’re on a team with four other players and each one of those players has already left practice for the day and you’re the last one standing - still hitting balls, still making putts, still hitting sand shots - then you’re already that much better than your four teammates who already left for the day.
It’s something to think about – if you stay later, practice harder then you’re going to be better than everyone else.
Another thing I wish I would have started to practice earlier in my golf career was the mental game. I have really enjoyed working on that aspect of my game. Think of it as another club in your bag. It’s something else to work on and perfect just like a pitch shot or lag putts. I highly recommend the book Zen Golf: Mastering the Mental Game by Joseph Parent. I have it on my Amazon carousel on the right side of this page if you would like to reference it there.
Take a look at it – let me know what you think!
Until next time…
There aren’t just rules in golf, there’s etiquette too.



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